Sexuality and gender identity
Information for Parents
Sexual Health and Relationships are important issues for everyone, regardless of sexuality or gender identity. Research has shown that young people are more likely to talk to a Youth Worker rather than a parent when it comes to these issues.
This section provides parents with some tips about discussing issues around sexuality and gender identity. It does not provide all the answers but does give a good starting point and signposts to additional resources.
What do you do if your child comes to you to tell you they are having issues with their sexuality or gender identity?
- Remember that your child may have been working up to this for a long time and that it is probably one of the most difficult things they have had to do.
- Try to remain calm when they are talking to you – this will help them to stay calm and will allow them to talk freely.
- Be as honest as you can. If you are finding it difficult, then let your child know this, but be clear that you are not judging them for it.
- Don’t make assumptions - if you need clarity on some of what is being said, ask.
- Explore what your child wants to do next. If they need more information or want to talk to someone else.
- Remember that you are human too and that you might need some help to get through this too.
- Speak to someone you trust about it. This can help you process your thoughts.
If you need anymore information or would like to talk to someone then call the LGBT Centre in Dumfries to talk to one of our trained staff – 01387739888. You can also get more information from the links below.
www.parentsenquiryscotland.org